We joined back up with the main trail, which loops around the lake with a nice view of Mt. Hood. There were a lot of people at this point and a man offered to take our picture. We started talking about camera settings and he helped me set my camera for the snow. After a few minutes he asked if we were headed back. He wanted to walk with us and mentioned that he didn't want to walk back alone. At this point Aaron quickly said we were going a different way and walked off. It was a bit awkward, but I followed him.
The view from the edge of the lake:
We walked on another side trail that ran along the lake. We stopped to eat and drink. I was just about to put my gloves back on and get ready to go when Aaron dropped to his knee in front of me and reached into his pocket. My mouth was still full of peanut butter and jelly sandwich, I think I said, "What are you doing?". He said, "Erin, I love you very much and I want to spend the rest of my life with you. Will you marry me?". Of course I said, yes, yes!
Aaron knew that I didn't want an engagement ring, just a wedding band. So he found a jeweler/artist from New York whose work is sold in Hood River. Her name is Saundra Messinger. This ring was thinner than what I had envisioned, so when we got home we picked out a thicker band together. I can't wait for it to come in!! Two more weeks. I love the simple rustic look of her jewelry.
Aaron's snowy knee
I was hoping that we would see that guy again to tell him why we had run off, but we didn't. Aaron was worried his plan was going to be ruined!
We drove a few miles away and had a woman take our picture together.
Mt. Adams on the way home.
We went home to shower, picked out a ring and went out for sushi at Kaze's in Hood River. Aaron got the spicy tuna rolls.
We shared a bento box. It was all delicious.
We then went to Brian's Pour House to get cheesecake, but theirs has hazelnuts in the crust. So we ordered dutch apple pie to go instead. Aaron wanted to check out Full Sail, he got a Wassail and we split a marionberry creme brulee. We ate the pie the next day, everything we ordered was excellent. Hood River has some very nice places to eat.
Onto the wedding dilemma...I don't want one. If we went to the courthouse tomorrow, or eloped to Thailand, I would be ecstatic. I know, I'm not a normal girl, but the whole thought stresses me out. But Aaron wants to do something with friends and family, and I feel the guilt too. So dear readers, I don't ask you for much, but I need your help! If you could pass along your thoughts, ideas, previous experiences with non-traditional, and/or small weddings I would appreciate it. I keep running around in circles in my head and I can't find a solution that is inexpensive but not tacky. Dropping thousands of dollars on something I could do without does not appeal to me. What to do??
But I am excited to get married and thrilled for this next stage in our lives and for a honeymoon!
6 comments:
ERIN! oh my gosh! congratulations! this is so so exciting!!!
the thought of an actual wedding freaks me out too. personally, i say go get married. alone or with a small group that YOU BOTH feel comfortable with. it's really about you. so do what makes you most comfortable.
you could always have a potluck or BBQ type party to celebrate after the actual wedding! have everyone bring sides/desserts and maybe you just provide main dish? that cuts the cost way down and makes everyone a part of the celebration.
for some reason this wedding came to mind for you (i read a lot of wedding blogs for some crazy reason):
http://www.oncewed.com/18266/real-weddings-blog/once-wed/victoria-fritz/
you could easily adapt that to a party and leave out the wedding part. i love the miss-matched plates and wild flowers in mason jars! check out the flickr link in that article for more pictures.
CONGRATS you two!
Sarah, we've talked about a potluck wedding, and we love that idea. I see two problems with it though - I feel like my family might think it was tacky (easily overcome by not worrying about it), and it would be difficult for out of town guests. Maybe they could be exempt? We thought the same thing too, provide the meat, alcohol and cake. I think we are leaning that route, thank you for validating it independently! That wedding looked awesome - they had a surprising number of people there!
How exciting and what a memorable proposal!!! The photos look great.
I don't have any good small wedding tips or ideas, but having had a pretty large one, I can say that looking back a few years later I know there are ways we could have made it just as special and not spent nearly as much. Your family and friends will know you guys as a couple and be happy however you want to celebrate, whether that is on your own or with them however you decide. Good luck and keep us posted!
Oh Erin and Aaron--CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
What a beautiful day for it all to occur on :-)
I didn't want a big wedding, I've NEVER watched our wedding video, I'm just not in to the center of attention bit...
We went to Vegas, but friends and family came with...if my parents hadn't paid, we couldn't have done that...
I think a potluck wedding would be very nice...not tacky at all! If your family wasn't digging it, you could always do it more of a friends type thing where not everyone brought stuff? I dunno, just trying to come up with alternate ideas :-)
Congrats again, this is so exciting!
Erin,
Chris wanted to elope to Tahiti and I wanted a traditional wedding. I was afraid I would regret it if we didn't do up a bash. We aimed small but they get a life of their own. As fun as it was (and expensive), we should have had immediate family in the courthouse and headed to Tahiti! A potluck reception later for all the friends and family.
Congrats to you both.
Erin congratulations! What beautiful photos you have to remember the day! Someone close to us also wants a casual fun, smaller wedding & reception. They've considered a park or out in the country somewhere possible even having it catered by Baja Fresh or something else really casual! It's really about having those closest to you sharing in a very special moment.
Whatever you decide to do make sure it suits you both!
All the best, Julie
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